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female
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anonymous
writes:Right, basically I was with this guy for 3 months, and we were friends for about a year and a half before. He sent me a drunken email, saying how he liked me and we started to go out. He never used to push me into anything, but started to get a little distant. And then one day, I was meant to pick him up and he decided, without telling me that he was going out with his mates. I drove to his (about 10 miles and back) and he wasn't there. I was understandibly upset when he said he would. We broke up down the phone. I asked him, do you want to continue this? he seemed very incomfortable and kept saying I don't know. And then we decided to have a break.That was two months ago.Since then, he's blocked me off msn, deleted me on myspace, won't talk to me. He will smile and say hey at school in the corridor, but thats it. We share a lot of friends and it's awkward that he don't want to speak to me. And a load of us are going on a camping trip, him and me included, and we are starting the same degree course next year. I was at a party he was at and he kept his distance but kept looking in my direction.I don't see him as boyfriend material anymore, but I feel hurt that he's thrown the friendship out of the window. I want to clear the air so that we can be friendly with no *atmosphere*.Is he really that upset? and I want to forget it and start afresh because I don't want there being atmosphere with my group of mates. What can I do?THank you :)
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reader, UsuallyConfused +, writes (29 May 2007):
I think that he will get over this soon enough.... maybe it's just his ego that has been bruised, or possibly he is avoiding you so he doesn't have to face up to the fact he may have hurt you. I know it's hard but don't let him effect your days, just keep hanging out with your friends, go camping, say hey to him at school and just accept that it is clearly HIS problem, not yours so why let it bring your down? Be the bigger person and move on, if he doesn't want to be friends with your anymore that's his loss. I'm sure this is just something that will take some time to level out. Your relationship has changed from friendship to something more and now back to something that makes him uneasy.. he is being immature, but I'm sure it will change to some other kind of friendship soon.
good luck!
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reader, DV1  +, writes (29 May 2007):
 You should stop wasting any kind of emotion on him, and make yourself happy with someone else, or through some other means.
DV1
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