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writes:Im so torn at what to do...An old flame and i have begun talking and him and his g.f have recently broke up...When he was with her he was tellin me he always wanted me and he loves me n such. Now hes saying hes too scared to get involved with me cuz i might hurt him...He lives in different city but its not crazy far..y know like 45min away...he dont come to see me..just as friends even..he says he will move here someday to be with me but till then i need to be patient! This has been close to a month n nothings changed...i love him with my whole heart n more..but im wondering if im sitting on a road to nowhere...
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reader, Royofthe Rovers  +, writes (29 May 2007):
 It is hard to go back down a road which we have been hurt by, your mind screams caution while your heart tells you to jump in feet first.
Give him the time he needs. He may not be making the effort to come and see you as you want, but he may need more time to straighten his head out.
he does sound like he still loves you so maybe hold on for him a bit longer, and just see what happens.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (28 May 2007):
 You have to stop being selfish. The man just had his heart stomped in, and he's not ready. Give him time to heal. If he confessed his love to you, and asked you to wait, what more could you possibly want? It may take months. If you REALLY love him, with your whole heart, you'll wait. As long as his feelings stay the same, you'll be happy if you do, I promise.
DV1
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