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female
age
41-50,
*hady
writes:Hi, I am 27 and weigh about 40. I am very thin but healthy but I dont feel comfortable when me and my boyfriend have sex.He says he enjoy himself but I cant stop thinking that he is lying. He just dont wanna hurt my feelings. Reply to this Question
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reader, UsuallyConfused  +, writes (29 May 2007):
I'm a bigger girl and I got the best advice ever from a male friend... he said that when you meet a guy he already knows what your body is like... just because clothes cover the surface doesn't mean he can't tell you have a bigger butt or small breasts.. Your boyfriend knows your body, and he oviously finds it very attractive or else he wouldn't be with you... or be wanting to have sex with you!!!
One thing I have learnt over the years is that men have very different taste.. some men love red heads, others blondes, some like a fuller figure and some prefer a thin girl. A male friend of mine loves thin women, he loves small breasts and long legs.. that's his type!! His best friend is my boyfriend.. they have totally different tastes!
Your boyfriend would not be lying about enjoying sex, and if he wasn't into you he wouldn't be there! Try looking at yourself the way he looks at you, you'll find you are perfect exactly as you are!!!!
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female
reader, laurie-loo  +, writes (29 May 2007):
 If your boyfrend told you he enjoys himself, i doubt he is lying. if he didnt enjoy it he would probably keep quiet about it and not tell you how he finds things at all. try dressing up in some sexy underwear for him, i beleive underwear is the best way to make yourself feel gorgeous and like a sex god. your obviously very insecure about your body but tell me a woman who doesnt worry about some things, your boyfrend probably has some worries his self! my advice to you would be, try your best not to let this insecurity take over your relationship. your boyfrend obviously likes you the way you are, thats why hes with you. and even if he didnt you are you and you should try and love your body and who you are as much as you can.
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reader, candy00s +, writes (28 May 2007):
 I dont think your boyfriend would tell you he enjoyed sex with you if he never, if he didnt he probably wouldnt say anything.
You sound insecure about your body. Maybe talking to your doctor about worrying about your weight could help.
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reader, DV1  +, writes (28 May 2007):
 If he said he enjoyed it, he did. Guys aren't like girls, where they lie about the experience. Guys I know have told girls outright that they were horrible in bed. It's good for a young girl to be healthy, but thin. If you don't feel comfortable with yourself, whether with him, or not, then I would recommend taking a break from sex. You may have an insecurity problem. Tell him about it.
DV1
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