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writes:I don't know what to do about my boyfriend. When I want to make love, I usually tell him in words. He tells me now that this is a turn off for him and that I should just start kissing him or something but the whole reason I don't do that is because I'm scared he'll reject me, like he usually does. I can take the rejection easier if I've only spoken to him, not started to kiss him. What can we do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the answers. I think you're right, I don't think he know what he wants though so he's just telling me different things to put off being intimate. Maybe it is time to move on, it just doesn't make sense does it? Thanks again
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reader, candy00s +, writes (28 May 2007):
 If he is rejecting you when you make a move non verbally then i think there is something not quite right here.
He is encouraging you to make a move rather than ask and then knocking you back when you do.
Maybe its time to move on.
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reader, DV1  +, writes (28 May 2007):
 If you have to ask him to make love to you, he's losing attraction. When he says to just do things, yet rejects you, he's proving that he's not attracted to you anymore. You're not getting what you need, and it's time for you to look elsewhere.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2007): so dont ask him :S
tell him or just do it. he probably wants to liven things up so it just happens. try a game or something
good luck x
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