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female
age
41-50,
*oneyone
writes:i met a guy online i knew was married, all we used to do is chat now i have been to see him twice and we went too far now he wants me to meet him again. I was on holiday abroad recently and he was on the phone at least 3 times a day. i have seen his wife and kids and i know hes not happy where do u see this going?
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (29 May 2007):
 I see you going to have sex with him, and him making you think you have a shot of being number one, when in reality you have no chance, and I also foresee you waking up one day in the future and realising all the time you wasted on him. -FBK
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reader, kenny +, writes (28 May 2007):
 I don't think you should take this any further than its gone already. These thing invariably never have a happy ending, as someone always ends up getting hurt. Married guys almost never leave their wives, so consequently you become the bit on the side, or mistress only seeing you when he can secretly slip away.
I would drop this guy and find someone with no emotional ties.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2007): What is wrong with these women? Why are you even getting involved with a married man? Are you going to be the reason to a broken family? If he's having a troubled marriage, let him deal with the wife. Let him work it out. Lady, get some common sense and go about your way. Why deal with a man who belongs to someone else? On top of that, they have children together. Get your own man!!!
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reader, candy00s +, writes (28 May 2007):
 Unless he leaves his wife and kids dont get involved.
You dont want to be blamed for destroying his family.
I think you should cut off all contact with him, someone is going to get hurt.
If things with his wife come to an end then maybe there is hope for you but id give him some space to work out what he wants.
You deserve better, someone who can give you 100%
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reader, DV1  +, writes (28 May 2007):
 Until he is divorced, you should do nothing. It's not your right to destroy a family. He's got a wife and kids, and if you don't like his wife, at least respect her and her kids.
DV1
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