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writes:Hey ,Well I was just walking home by myself and I saw my best mates boyfriend and we just talked for a bit and then suddenly , he just snogged me. I didn't want him to but My best mate found out and her boyfriend is blaming it all on me. My best mate believes him because I used to fancy him when she wasn't going out with him and I have a boyfriend myself and now he wont talk to me and Loads of people at my school call me slag and boyfriend stealer!!What shall I do and how can I make my mate to believe me!!?? Reply to this Question
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reader, penta  +, writes (16 May 2007):
 First, make sure everything is solid with your bf. This could mess everything up with him if you're not careful. Then, once this is clear, ask him to talk with her (maybe with you there). Your mate needs to be warned that her bf is not being true to her. Tell her you understand why she needs to believe that it's your fault, but what if it isn't and she's trusting this jerk?
There's nothing you can do about the tounges wagging at school except to wait it out. If you get things solid with your bf and he'll stand by you, that will help a lot.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (16 May 2007):
 Unfortunately you can't make her believe you, you can only keep sticking up for yourself until she does. I don't know why but girls always come off as the boyfriend/husband stealer even if you didn't kiss him back. Of course there are some women who steal boyfriends and husbands for real but all you can do here is keep telling your best friend and boyfriend that he kissed you but it wasn't reciprocated and tell everyone else that too. Say(and try to believe) that you don't care whether they believe you because you know its the truth. The more you try to justify what happened the less believable it'll sound. I hope things work out okay. Try not to lose hope. At your age the drama will be about something else next week.
CD
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