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writes:My boyfriend and I broke up. He said that he didn't have time for racing and a girlfriend and we were both tired of arguing. We are trying the whole friends thing. I still love him alot and care about him deeply...he still holds the key to my heart...I just don't know what to do. I want to get back with him...We have only been apart about two weeks but it seems so much longer. Should I just give him space? I can't loose him he has changed my life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2007): For a start please don't listen to the person who really can't spell and clearly didn't read your problem (I think above). I am going through the same thing and for me it's only been a couple of days (we drifted apart and didn't talk enough) but I saw him the next day, after we broke up, and we talked amazingly. If you really value this guy as a person you can't do anything but be friends with him, if you can't be friends why do you want to be with him in a more emotional way? It is possible he will change his mind but you can't let hope of that happening overshadow your relationship, I'm still not clear on how you can make it clear to him that he should tell you if he changes his mind without scaring him, so if you find that out let me know.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (17 May 2007):
 Words BF/GF have different meaning to you and him.
I would advise you ask him what is it a girlfriend.
As you are now "friends", it's possible he will tell you.
His answer may let you know whether eventually (not now) you can get back with him or you should give him space.
You broke up, because "we were both tired of arguing", and you should agree on more points if you decide to reunite.
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reader, steven 25206542  +, writes (16 May 2007):
 my advice would be if u are still friends next time he is round yours our your round his talk to him like normall then explain to him this has got to stop u still have feelings for himand u carnt hurt yourself more by pretending to be his friend when u obvusly arnt say u will give him his space but darlin u carnt kidd yourself and be his friend hope this replay helps
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