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writes:I am 17 years old I started college last october and met someone who had the charm to make me weak at my knees! we were chatting for 2 weeks every night and during cay in college we would do work together but every1 came to know about it and loads of close friends got involved some who weren't happy about us being together and ruined everything i still talk to him on a level but it not the same everyday he would phone just to hear my voice or prank witheld even on valentine's. Now i got 5 weeks left and evryone saying to me that he uses me for work that i give to him and little favors for him but i don't why i think he likes me because he stares and all the time and gets jelous everytime i talk about another boy. don't undastand what to do i tried moving on but i don't why? when i see him i get this feeling and buzz that he feels 4 me and cares but doesn't know how to show it!! I NEED HELP PLEASE I TRIED MOVING ON BUT CAN'T!! HELP HELP!! I ONLY HAVE 5 WEEKS LEFT AND I'VE KNOWN HIM 7 AND HALF MONTHS Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (16 May 2007):
 Hi sweetness,
First off, STOP GIVING HIM YOUR WORK. If he really likes you, he could care less about the work. If he's truly using you, he'll be long gone once he realizes that he can't use you for schoolwork (you're better than that!) and he'll find some other poor girl to charm into doing his work for him (sympathize for the next person to have their feelings hurt by this guy).
I think after these last five weeks it'll be a lot easier to get over him. I assure then that you'll be going home and you won't be seeing this guy regularly anymore? Well, that will be when it's easiest to get over him. Just enjoy spending time with your family and friends for the summer!
Stop doing his work for him! And the favors! You're better than that, make him do his own work. You sound like a smart girl and even though it'll be hard, I'm sure you'll be able to do it.
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, x.BrokenxHearts.x +, writes (16 May 2007):
 Instead of listening to what you're friends & everybody else is saying talk to him and find out yourself the poor guy wont know what hes done wrong if he does like you.
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reader, Cole9292 +, writes (16 May 2007):
you are 17
you will meet someone else.
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