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36-40,
*Sarax
writes:I have been in a relationship which broke up a month ago. throughout the relationship my boyfriend spent a lot of time with his 'friend' an old flame. when we first started seeing each other she told him that she still had feelings for him and felt that i was in the way. My ex told her that he felt strongly about me and that wasn't going to change any time soon. i was wary of him spending a lot of time with her, but he insisted they were just friends and that i was the one he was with not her. i was suspicious when she stayed at his house until early hours in the morning, and noticed that they flirted a lot. but i gave my ex the benefit of the doubt. recently we broke up over constant bickering over her. he went away with lots of his friends and also her. before he went away he told me we would probably get back together when he came back. even though we split we still saw a lot of eachother. he came back from his holiday and told me that he kissed her. i feel so hurt and betrayed by both of them. Hes told me we shouldn't get back together and that he wasn't happy. i can't help blaming her. and i'm still in love with him what should i do? please help.
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reader, steven 25206542 +, writes (16 May 2007):
 i am so sorry for your heart ache and it is wrotten when some one says they werent happy but at least he did tell u about the kiss i am so sorry to say this but chances are they must have hit it off when they went away what u have to foucose on now is getting over him wich will be hard belive me just think off it this way he is not the one i dont want to give u faluse hope here but he seems to be a very well springy person who is uncomfertable with his life i mean this like he changes his grilfriends when the modd hits him if u go out and get on with your life he may be begging to have u back but my advice is just for get about him hope this helps best of luck
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