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36-40,
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writes:I have dated this guy for 3 months, and then after that, we decided to just be friends, but cause we weren't an "item" anymore, we became toys for eachother. When the moment came where it was almost his first time, he couldn't get a hard on, and ever since he's been very avoidant towards me. He has had a bi history, and while dating, told everyone he was straight, but now he's telling everyone he's bi again (but to me he says hes gay). All his closest friends tell me he still likes me and he thinks I'm not interested in him anymore, and that I should just go ahead and ask him out again. He told all his friends that we fight like an old married couple (cause we do) but why say that if we're not even going out? I can tell he might have feelings for me still the way everyone and himself act, and I don't mind that at all, I just want to know what to do, because he'll be leaving for college in a month. Reply to this Question
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (17 May 2007):
 He is leaving for college for a month...and what exactly do you want from him? A stright answer? My guess is that HE does not even know any answers to the questions you want to ask. He sounds even more confused about things than you do. Are you enjoying the drama of this? I hope so, becuase I do not think you are going to get a decent relationship.
I suggest that since he is about to leave, seek him out, and you are going to have to take the lead with him, and lay all your cards on the table with him. At least YOU can get some closure out of it, even if he still will not be able to give you a decent answer.
-Frank
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