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*ornflake
writes:I met this lovely guy online, we got on really well and met up last weekend, I realised straight away that I had fallen for him in a big way and I think I got too serious too soon. I'm now worried that I have frightened him away. I have asked him to tell me one way or the other whether he likes me as much or not, and he has told me it's too soon we don't know each other enough. He lives a long way away so we wont be seeing much of each other. I feel like a teenager again going through the pain again, how do I keep my cool, I don't want to look like a bunny bo, and thatiler!! Reply to this Question
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reader, cornflake +, writes (16 May 2007):
cornflake is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou to you both for the advise. In hindsight I would have done things differently, all I now feel is regret because it could have been something good and I've gone and messed it up
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2007): Be careful! Maybe he wasn't totally honest in the first place. I feel you also should take more time to get to know this person better, before getting so involved. Take it easy. If all is well, and meant to be, it will come around. I, personally, would rather get to know as much as possible,during this time apart. Try not to pressure the situation. Get to your answers in roundabout ways. Just let him know you did enjoy meeting him,and no matter what, you want to stay in contact. That way, there shouldn't be any pressure on him to make any decisions immediately. He already knows how you feel(could've maybe held back slightly on that one). Stay interesting! Do not give it up so easy. I know you felt the time was right, but do you now? You are right to be so honest, but the timing?????
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reader, elsie +, writes (16 May 2007):
 its seems youve come across as too intense for him or maybe the guy wasnt as in to you as you were to him?this happens.hes made it quite clear that he feels uncomfortable with your question.hes been as direct as he can without hurting your feelings too much.if i were you id leave it up to him to contact you.
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