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I've been chatting online to her for four days... Should I tell I've started to fall for her!!?

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Question - (16 May 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, *eterk5699 writes:

I was recently having a lng distance relationship which I posted about a while ago. That's ended now and I'm over this girl.

I've just met someone on a flirting website and we've exchanged emails and numbers (and it's only been 4 days) but we chat daily about everything. I was feeling a bit down earlier today and she really cheered me up.

We began talking about meeting up and sitting by the river lying there for the night, stargazing and looking into one anothers eyes.

I think I've already begun having feelings for her.

The question is: Should I mention this to her and should we meet?

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A male reader, Peterk5699 United Kingdom +, writes (4 June 2007):

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Peterk5699 agony auntI'm totally over her now. She has a bf and I was just having one of those moments.

Maybe it's cos I'm 18 and confused?

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A female reader, Cole9292 United States +, writes (16 May 2007):

uh yes you might want to keep that to yourself. no matter how much you talk to someone on the phone or online, it might creep her out if you tell her you have "feelings" for her after only four days. or, you could get off the computer and try to meet actual people.

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A male reader, Peterk5699 United Kingdom +, writes (16 May 2007):

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Peterk5699 agony auntThanx mrs fabulous cd206.

I did think I shold wait cos telling her after this short could make her run a mile.

And I was planning (in my mind) to try and meet her in a month due to the fact that it's festival season and I'm off to Donnington...but that's another story.

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (16 May 2007):

cd206 agony auntWhether you should meet or not is something that you should decide when you know each other better but I totally advise not telling her you have feelings for her just yet. You've been talking for half a week. I think it'd scare her to see how intense your feelings are already. I say give it a month at least.

CD

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