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anonymous
writes:Hi thereI have been speaking to my bf and he wants me 2 have sex with him without a condom. He wants my kids but I'm only 15! wot do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007): Your having under age sex. Stop
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007): Hello there, This question may have been posted a while back BUT. . .for anyone who is out there that is thinkin of doing this PLEASE DON'T DO IT!! At 15 yrs old your still so young & have so much ahead of you to look forward to. I had my child at 15 it's been VERY hard work. Don't be fooled that you'll get things easily cos it doesn't happen&if your B/F really thinks that much of you he'd wait many more yrs instead of trying to make you do something that will change your life forever. if you will insit on having sex so young make sure you use protection&condoms are a good choice as these will stop you catching any nasty sti's. Think of your future don't let anyone pressure you in to doing something that you may regret.
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reader, LenaTobery  +, writes (17 May 2007):
 i would not do it because ur only 15 u still have a lot of life ahead of you having a kid now could mess ur life up ur only a baby ur self focus on ur life goals and then a lil later in life have all the children u want be a child ur self than whn ur older make that very grown choice.
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reader, love-him +, writes (17 May 2007):
 chick k, a lot of my firends have had children young, one of my firneds was 11 when she had her baby, but i am not going to tell you its ok,like what CD said, they are hard work, trust me they are, if you both were reday for a baby then it should be ok, but you clearly arnt ok, because you have to ask for advice, and how you put ''only 15'' shows you know that its not a good idea, tell him you want to wait until you are at least 16 or older. hope i helped chick, mail me if u wan 2 n lemme no how u get on x x x
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (17 May 2007):
 Tell him no. Do you really wanna upset one of the most important times in your life? when your finishing school, doing your exams, setting your life plan basicly? And chances are you WONT be together with him for that long (might be wrong, some people do stay with thier school sweethearts, but in most cases no) and does he really wanna have to be paying money every month of his life untill hes 33? (assuming hes 15 aswell). Seriously as far as mistakes go this could be one of the biggest at that age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2007): hey anonimous,
you should never be forced into anything by anyone and if yuor boyfriend loves and respects you then he will do as YOU want and no body else. you are not ready for kids hun honest im 15 and already got a 3 month old baby and it is so hard.
you dont need the stress of a baby.
maybe you should stop using condoms and go on the pill without telling him. this way you are both pleased.
hope i helped__x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2007): DO NOT- I REPEAT DO NOT give in to your boyfriends requests- if he wants a child so bad tell him to go have one with another woman- and make sure he pays child support- It is his responsibility to wear a condom and it is your responsiblity to be on the pill, demand that he wear a condom and abstain if he wont. He does not have the right to force you into doing something you do not want to do. Children are not always "a blessing", and especially at your age- there will not be enough support for you to keep a child healthy, time, finance, living situation etc. And at your age boyfriends are fleeting. Good luck- I would encourage talking to a councelor about this.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (17 May 2007):
 You are in no way ready for kids, emotionally, physically or mentally. Tell him this isn't on. You don't have to have kids just because he wants them. Is he older than you? Do you feel pressurised by him? It's not good to put up with letting anyone tell you what to do. Another thing to consider... condoms are only 70% effective, I would go on the pill too. If you speak to your local family planning clinic they can also give you advice on how to say no to your boyfriend. Babies are HARD work. You won;t understand just how hard until you have them, but you sound very mature and grown up and I know you'll be able to stick to your feelings about this.
CD
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