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41-50,
*yor
writes:Dear agony aunt,I met a nice bloke not last sat but the sat before through a friend of mine. We danced most of the night he said i was beautiful and couldnt understand why i was single.so later that evening we kissed i left and went home.My friend said he liked me and wanted my number so she gave it to him.hes been texting me since but nothing inparticular.Things like hey sexy, what u up to.nothing definate.yesterday he text me saying do you want to meet up?so i said yes that would be cool, then he said you dont have to, i said yes i do silly.then that was it.today i text him and he still has not set a date with me.I finished by texting him are you working away, but no answer i really dont know what hes playing at.shall i just leave it??ive deleted his number.im really fed up of all this game guessing.please help.yours eyor x
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reader, cd206 +, writes (1 February 2007):
 Hm. It seems to me that men are rubbish at texting. You should see some of the ones I have on my phone which leave me wondering whether he likes me or not. I think basically the great majority are bad with words. Maybe he wants you to take the lead and suggest a date. He's asked if you want to meet up, maybe text him back and say yes ok, how about tuesday at 8 in the pub for example? Then he can say whether thats good for him or not and give you an alternative if it's not. Sounds like he just wants you to do a bit of the running. Can you get his number off your mate and give this a try?
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reader, Millyella  +, writes (1 February 2007):
 Agree with the others; just let this one go. Whatever is going on in his life at the moment, he doesn't want to start anything with you.
It is so irritating though, isn't it? Maybe he's just one of those guys who likes to have loads of girls texting him all the time. Anyhow, you don't need that; so get rid of him!
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reader, Tanyas247  +, writes (1 February 2007):
 You're on the right track. I'd let it go, myself. It sounds like he might have a girlfriend or something. Either way, I wouldn't get my hopes up at all. And, as he says, you're beautiful! Move on to better, more definite things if that's what you want.
Best of Luck
Tanya
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