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writes:Me and my fiance had a great relationship. Then i said some things I shouldn't have. We havn't spoken in a month. She has a new man. She wont take my phone calls,but she wont tell me whats goin on cause she still loves me. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2007): We need more information. Like Jovial had asked, how do you know she still loves you - based on what have you come to this conclusion? Second, WHAT are the things you've said and have done that you two stopped the relationship?
**How do you expect ANYONE with a sane mind to help you if you don't provide details? [sighs]
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (31 January 2007):
 hi
first of all how do you know if she still loves you? ever heard the saying there is a thin line between love and hate? maybe thats what is happening here, whatevr you pushed her over the edge; although i do think her having a new man was very sudden maybe she is on a rebound, and if its true maybe u guys still have a chance? did you tell her how sorry you are? does she know how lonely your life has become without her? couples do fight and make-up in no time maybe whatever you said confirmed the doubts she had about your engagement and unknowingly it was the solution she was looking for, so dont beat yourself too much you lost her and she moved on you are still young take your time and you will be able to open your heart to someone else and you will be happy more than she is just dont blew it up again. learn from this and move on be happy for her and it will be the forgiveness you seek from her and yourself.
good luck
jovial
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reader, CateyMelissa  +, writes (31 January 2007):
Send her some flowers and tell her that you miss her
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