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writes:hi, my problem is i go out with a girl who is 2 years older than me. ive known her about 9 months an have been going out with her for about 1 month, i love her much but i dont think she loves me. we both go to school and there is a boy in her year who also likes her a lot, he tells her lots of things such as "u am gorgous, im gonna have sex with you". this greatly upsets me, even tho she says she dont like him it still gets me kinda upset.please give me on advice on what to do about the fact i think she dont like me, and the boy. thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, depaiva  +, writes (2 February 2007):
 At your age all i could think about was having fun, wish I could be that age again. You sound like a nice young man and a little mature for your age and there's nothing wrong with that.
This guy probably likes her too and because he's older than you, he probably doesn't see you as a threat. The things he says to your gf aren't very nice, especially about wanting to have sex with. I don't know if there's anything you can do to stop him but try stand up to him and tell him that what he said isn't very nice to say to a lady and that he should show some respect.
As for you and your gf, the relationship is still young and you should take it a day at a time and treat her like the lady she is and she'll end up loving you for it. Most girls love getting attention from there bf-it makes them feel special, and you can win her over.
Good luck!
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reader, Jovial +, writes (1 February 2007):
 the reason why you are seeing this as a problem its because you are still young. dont worry you will learn with time that in this field there is competition, betrayals, heartache funny enough there is a lot of excitement, you are too young to be talking about love liking a girl at your age should be fun not heartache. if she said she likes you not him believe me the other guy is just your competition and the one who wins is the one the girl like. so lighten up and enjoy the moment because probably there are a lot of guys who likes her and your insecurities will drive her away.
jovial
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