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female
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anonymous
writes:me and my bf were talking about how we enjoyed the sex we had. He said everything was fine and he couldn't think of anything he'd perfer me to do. I told him as nicely as I could that he was selfish when it came to doing me. Which it ture, after he is done he just or if i ask him to do me before we have sex he just stops all together. He said I was right after thinkin about it and would try harder. Things haven't changed at all and when i asked about it he started complain that no one else has ever complained. Any suggestions on what i can do? Reply to this Question
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (1 February 2007):
 Withdrawing the blowjobs is a sure way of getting what you want......FULL STOP
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female
reader, cd206 +, writes (1 February 2007):
 I'm with country woman. Withdrawing the blow jobs is a sure way of getting what you want in bed!
CD
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reader, Country Woman +, writes (1 February 2007):
 Stop pleasuring him unless he gives you some pleasure first. If others haven't complained then he has obviously had sex with several and they must have just been excited about the sex side of things and pleasing him.
Sex and oral sex is something that you should both enjoy. Just stop doing anything for him and if he asks why say well it should be something we both enjoy and if he refuses keep things to pure sex if you still want to, it really is up to you and no one should force you to do anything you don't want to do.
See if anything changes.
If he goes cold on you then you really do know that he is a selfish lover and you are better off without him.
You are still young so don't think that he is the only one out there for you, though I am not saying go and sleep with loads of others but caring for someone can come from all the small things that someone does for us.
Little signs of affection like a card when we are unwell or flowers or chocolates or a chocolate bar if he doesn't have a lot of money. Putting you ahead of himself is something that all new relationships are about. Trying to impress your partner.
Don't let this get you down and just see how things go OK.
Take care.
Country Woman
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