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writes: Okay I have a big problem. I came over New Jersey on the train last night. It took me 3 and a half hours to get here to see my boyfriend. Besides coming here to see him I also came to go out and have some fun with him cuz ever since I moved to Philadelphia I have no fun anymore cuz I don't have any friends there. It's kind of hard to make friends when you're not in college. Well, I came here expecting to do something fun so I asked my boyfriend to take me to the mall to walk around. I told him we don't need to spend any money at all and that I just want to walk around and talk and then we can see a movie but he was just laying in his bed at 5 30 in the afternoon saying he wanted to take a nap. And I had no problem with that but I wanted to know what time we were leaving so that I could get ready. He kept telling me I don't know, I don't know, I want to take a nap... and I was getting frustrated cuz I wanted to make plans. He told me I was being annoying cuz he was trying to sleep so he got up and kicked me. I am a very outgoing girl and he told me that he didn't wanna walk around cuz he hates the mall. I know we're not gonna work out cuz he's not outgoing enough, doesn't like clothes, music and dancing like me. He's such a loser, i'm so mad at him right now. I want to dump him but i'm gonna be too lonely and I don't think that's good for my mental health right now. He dropped out of college and doesn't even have a job and won't even bother looking for one. I really don't like him anymore but he's gonna help me pay for my bills cuz I had to quit my job cuz my boss was sexually harrassing me. And I won't have all the money for my bills before I find a new job. I don't have anyone else to borrow money from so he's my only source right now and my only friend. What the he** can I do?
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (1 February 2007):
 If you're outgoing, you shouldn't have a problem meeting new people. If you were sexually harassed at your job, you need to see a lawyer. . . or go to a free legal clinic.
As for your so-called "boyfriend", he sounds like a sloth, and I wouldn't waste any more time with him. You don't want to be indebted to him.
Get some legal help and move on. Explain to the bill collectors your situation. You can pay them when you get the money. Don't feel like you have to be "kept" by someone.
Good luck!
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