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male
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have a friend I used to date, we work together.Our relationship at work has always been on the proffessional level. During our fragile,(on and off)relationship, I kept my friendship with other females a secret from her. My Female friends were there for me in my time of crisis long before I met her.Knowing her, I always thought if she found out she would over react and terminate our relationship. I never found the right moment or those soft words to tell her. Needless to say, it happened. Now we are "just friends"........ or so she says. Even though we still go down lovers lane every once in a while she has made it clear to me that we are just friends. This has been going on for a little more than three years. Everytime I bring out getting serious, she does not want to talk about it.Everytime I go on about my own merry way she approaches me with love and affection for about a week, then its back to being friends again...It was this type of behavior that allowed me to have my female friends to begin with..What should I do?
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reader, miss fit  +, writes (4 May 2007):
this can 't except we can't have it all. sit her down and tell her that either you two have a sereious relationsdhip or she has to except that you two are just friends, not a couple. if shes still irritating you get a restraining order. this is good because even after it expires she 'll stay away from you cos she will hate you!!
miss fit xxx
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