A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:This is a conversation i had with a guy i liked, i get most of it but not all.Is he using me? Does he like me? Just please tell me what he means? Me: What do you think of me?Him: How do you mean, you have to be more accurate?Me: What am i to you?Him: You are a friend of mine, we hang out every so often.. but before i say more tell me what is on your mind and why it is bothering you? You can talk to me anytime.Me: It jut seemed like i was the side girl. Give her a bit of attention to keep her there, call her once in a blue moon just for sex, then leave until you need her again. I just didn't want you to see me like that.Him: I never call you for sex you are always the one that calls me... you cant get angry at me for that, i never call you because of the age thing i know that if you call me then that is your choice. and when you do i figure its partly sexualy related and you know it is, i could be sleazy but i like to thik im a gentleman... i remember i picked you and your friends up in the middle of town in the middle of the night to make sure you got home safely, i do look out for you... the slight age thing is strange, but whenever you called me i always treated you with the respect you deserved and enjoy your company and conversation and i hope im the same..Him: Are you going to message backMe: Im not angry i only wanted to know where i stood with you. i call you because you make me happy not because i want sex, i know you look out for me and im greatful... the age thing is a bump in the road but thousands of people can look past that and yes i enjoy talking to you.Me: Are you going to message me backHim: Goodnight, dont stress :-)Me: Goodnight Reply to this Question
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reader, shania  +, writes (30 April 2007):
 Well it sounds to me like he is using you for sex...why? Because he doesn't see you as a girlfriend but a person to have a leg over once in a while.Lose him.
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