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writes:ok im really confused about my feelins. a friend recently told me he fancied me.i was unsure at first if i felt the same but then the more i spoke 2 him the more i realized i did like him and i told him i liked him back.But then the otha nite wen we met up, he started gettin really jealous if i spoke 2 otha guys and coz i culdnt cope wiv his insecurities, i told him i jst wanted 2b friends and i think i really upset him.but now the more i think of it the more i dont know if ive done the rite thing and cant get him out of my head.i dont want to keep messin him about whilst i sort out my feelins. wat shuld i do?
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reader, michelle000  +, writes (30 April 2007):
I would be very careful with this guy. Your not even together and he is already getting so jealous. Whats going to happen if you did decide to be with him? He has no right to get mad at you for talking to another guy. If he was your boyfriend he would probably want to control you.If you realy can't stop thinking about him,maybe you can talk to him and tell him the way he was acting is not cool at all.
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reader, fishfood +, writes (30 April 2007):
 Dont tell him just yet because if ur still unsure of how u feel, theres every chance u could tell him u like him just to change ur mind again and if he really likes u, it will be really unfair on him. Plus if ur friends, the more u mess with his feelings (even if its done unintentionally), the more you risk ruining ur friendship with him. I know its hard but maybe u should just wait and see if ur feelings sort themselves out, good luck xx
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reader, abbey121 +, writes (30 April 2007):
 i agree, dont say anything to him that might get his hopes up, the same thing recently happened to me (accept i was the one who told my friend i liked him) and now i feel like he was messing me about and its broken my heart as i was really falling for him.
if your unsure then stay away otherwise you could end up breaking his heart, unless he didnt actually feel that strongly for you
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reader, cd206 +, writes (30 April 2007):
 Don't do anything until you've made a clear cut decision. You're right that it isn't okay to start messing with his feelings. Personally (and this is just one person's opinion) I think you've done the right thing. It's a bad move to get involved with someone who is so controlling that they get jealous when you talk to other people.
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