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We still together now but I dont trust her anymore.

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Question - (30 April 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2007)
A male Ireland age 41-50, *dmmyy writes:

Hi Guys, I have been going out with My GF for one year now. One day(3 weeks ago) I saw her Email. She met a man in her job, (in the bar) they have been Emailing and texting each other for a while now, and a lot of tempting words were in those mails, like miss u xx , love u xx , Cant wait to see u.....

We sat down and talked... she said she liked him, but she loves me more, and she said she wont contact him any more... We still together now but I dont trust her anymore...

I just cant get over this....

what should I do??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007):

hey,guys

I broke up with her in the end, Now, I miss her, but much happier than before. thanks guys

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007):

I dont know, but its funny because I just found the same shit in my girls phone about five minutes before reading this. I have come to my own conclusion that I want to be with someone that I can trust and thats that. Good luck.

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A female reader, rammsteinfan United States +, writes (1 May 2007):

rammsteinfan agony auntHey....the same thing happened to me too! I just happened to catch my bf emailing this woman that both of us knew and I read her response....She told him to come over to her place so they both could "f..."!!! I was mad when I read that...he got mad at me seeing that...getting up and grabbing his coat walking out the door to her house!!

Needless to say....I left his sorry ass!!! Then he realized that he made a terrible mistake....wanting me back...NO FREAKING WAY IN HELL WOULD I TAKE HIM BACK!

I think you should kick her to the curb....and find a much better girl who is honest and who would treat you with respect....GOOD LUCK!!!!

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A male reader, Stuckonlove United States +, writes (30 April 2007):

Dude I am going through the same deal and she said this guy keeps emailing her but she leads him on saying "cant wait to see you". I have been with this girl for seven years and I am going to tell her that she messed up real bad by doing this and I am leaving. I read her emails after I found out and she had 1400 sent items I went through. She was talking bad about me and wishing to be with this other guy who would not leave his girl for my girl. Well it turned out he was a player and she got played. But she doesn't know she also lost me in the whole ordeal. I thought she was the best girl in the world and would never cheat. Life is tough and dont let them walk over you. Your gonna have to leave her. I would leave her now.

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A female reader, Help!Me! United Kingdom +, writes (30 April 2007):

Babe....

This Sounds Bad.

I Think You Should Tell Her That You Love Her

Alot, But It Hurt When You Realized She Also Liked

This Guy...And I Think You Should Explain To Her

You Cant Trust Her, And Why You Cant Trust Her, In

A Gentle way So It Dont Seem Like YOur Breaking Up

With Her.

Hope All Goes Well Babe

XX

*Moderator Note: Please do not capitalize every other word in your replies, or your posts will be deleted next time.*

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