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writes:ever told a friend how u feel thinking they feel the same way (as they said they had) just for them to suddenly say they just want to be friends for no obvious reason?i feel so stupid and cant think what ive done. has this happened to anyone and if so how have they dealt with it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2007): something similar happened to me once, when a friend guessed that i liked him a lot. We talked about it, and we were friends for a while but then ended up falling out, but it had nothing to do with my feelins.
You do feel a bit stupid, and its a bit awkward at first, but if you were such good friends then you will both sort it out and be okay.
hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2007): i told the girl that i work with that i was in love with her over a year ago. we still work together and are still good friends my feelings are still the same for her and i told her that i loved her agen 2 weeks ago and she always replys with i am very flatterd i think the world of you but ? but. i know this will not help soz
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reader, penta  +, writes (30 April 2007):
 Knowing is definitely better than not knowing. The one you're looking for is out there, and now you can move on without spending any more energy on the person who won't return your feelings. I know it doesn't look that way right now, but you really are better off.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (30 April 2007):
 Remember how you felt before you said anything, how agonising it was not to know how she felt. At least now you do. In a way it's worse because there's little hope b ut it's better than the endless wondering.
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