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writes: I think this guy in my sculpture class is really cool. He is friendly and talented and helped me learn how to begin sculpting because I had no experience with clay before taking this class. We chit chat sometimes and we even had lunch together once, but he doesn't seem interested in getting to know me more outside of class. I had gathered up the guts to invite him to this event my church was having and he asked for my number just in case he got lost on the way there and I agve it to him but he has never called me--and he didn't come to the event. He did explain afterwards that his car was in the shop, but this sounds a little like a lame excuse. After that, I haven't hung out with him but still am friendly towards him and he is friendly with me too. I'm debating this very moment to go ask him how's it going becuse he's in the room next to me, but I don't wnat to seem like I'm desperate to talk to him when he should be pursuing me. I don't wnat to look like a lost puppy dog always following him. I do know for a fact he's single...I just am not sure if I should make a move (which i believe i did by inviting him to that event) or leaving him alone. The semester is almost over and our last class is this wednesday, and i don't know whether to ask him for his email or myspace or what? I don't wnat to look like hanger-on or a pest, but I don't want to let a good opportunity pass by. help please? (if he was really ijterested he would have done something by now wouldn't he?)
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (30 April 2007):
 You've got to grit your teeth and do it or else you're always going to wonder "what if?". Like Penta said, be bold!! Bite the bullet! Don't let a good opportunity pass you by!
I think you know what you ought to do, I think you just need some moral support. You need a cheerleading squad. YOU GO GIRL! Go on and do it! HOORAY for you! Be bold, take a chance! Be gutsy!
I don't think he'll think you're a pest at all. If anything, he'll be flattered that you think he's a cool guy. And about him not doing something himself? Well, maybe he's as nervous as you are... so do him the favor and make the move yourself.
Go for it, sweetness. Good luck!
xxIndia
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reader, penta +, writes (30 April 2007):
 Well, it's about to be now or never, isn't it? Under the assumption that it's better to know than to always wonder, you really don't have anything to lose.
Be bold. Tell him you think he's friendly and talented, and you'd like to see whether the two of you could be closer. Lunch? Coffee? Then see what he says. If he gives you his number, you're gold. If he says anything else, then at least you know and then you're onto the summer and away. No worries.
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