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female
age
30-35,
*eksee_babe
writes: hi im 16 in june and ive been dating this guy for almost 6 years but he is 22 in june and we have been fighting alot for the last 2 years i dont know if im in love with him.... when we fight i always hurt my self or get really upset and do anything to get him back, what should i do is it love? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, cd206 +, writes (30 April 2007):
In my experience if it's love you don't need to question it, you just know. I wasn't sure if I was in love with the guy I dated when I was 16 but a few years later I knew it was love. Sounds like your relationship is quite difficult and that might be down to the difference in your age. Speak to someone you trust about hurting yourself when you're upset since this is never good. Think about whether you really want to be with this guy.... I get the inkling you just don't want to be alone which isn't the same thing as wanting to be with this particular guy.
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