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30-35,
*bbey121
writes:hi last month i got drunk and told a friend that i fancied him but he never really gave me an answer, just said that he was unsure about whether he wanted to get in a relationship at the minute so i said thats fine and just carried on chatting with him.since then we have been texting each other every day, been quite flirty, and its been so long since i found someone that i have had so much in common with, can chat to for hours and never run out of things to say, and someone who i have felt so comfortable with that i can share my inner-most feelings with that i cant get him out of my head.he then kinda of admitted that he like me back, he said something like "i really like u two, im confused about things at the minute" but then when we met up last week, he said he just wants to be friends (it was such an awkard conversation it was horrible) so now im confusedi cant stop thinking about him, i feel like hes led me on just to knock me back and now i dont know what to do. i feel like my heart has been broken and i dread seeing him tomorowhat can i do? has this happened to anyone else?
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reader, penta  +, writes (30 April 2007):
 It looks like he tried the relationship and then decided he wasn't interested. I'm sorry, but I don't think there's a way to get him to like you in the way you want.
In a way, it's good that you were able to be so blunt with him initially -- it got it all out into the open, and gave him a chance to see how he feels.
Let it go. Move on. It may take a while, but then you're free to find someone who will return your feelings. Good luck!
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