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writes: im a 16 year old boy and i've got a bit of a problem, i havent had a relationship for 6 years and i've basically forgotten how relationships work, so if anyone can give me ideas on this i will be vary grateful. i also need help in how to approach girls that i like the look of. any help is good thanx Reply to this Question
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reader, Learning2Love +, writes (25 November 2006):
 First things first, the most important step is to love who you see in the mirror and accept yourself with all your 'flaws' because it's that which is going to make you special. Secondly grow a healthy self-confidence by doing sports or other things that you excel at. Only then do you have a healthy basis to work from and something which to offer your love interest. This will also help you not to be completely distroyed when things don't work out. Remember that someone who's broken can't necesarily help heal someone else. God bless! :-)
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reader, bellachic385 +, writes (25 November 2006):
 They are complicated for one thing. But don'd get discuraged. Get to know a few girls that you see often, in your classes or in your clubs and sports and as you talk to them, you may take a liking to one of them. Ask for her number if you don't have it, and maybe hangout one time. Then see how that goes and if you are getting the same feelings back hangout more and then get into a serious relationship. This takes time and lots of energy. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2006): Well they are complicated for starters. But don't get discouraged. Get to know a girl or two in your classes. Maybe you are in a club or sport with a girl you can get to know. Then ask her to hangout if you just want to be friends or more, if there is chemistry. I wish you the best.
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