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writes: i've been going out with this guy for a year. i thought i was really in love with him. Hes started this job and now i hardly see him. i used to only see him at weekends bt now i only see him for maybe and hour and a half a week. im completely bored with the setting and we cant do anything at all but sit at a coffee shop. we used to b able to do alot of things in the day. i can kiss him or do anything with him infront of other people, but thats the only place we can go. im now feeling very distant from him. i dnt feel as i love him anymore. i know for a fact he does love me completely, he would do anything for me. im afraid that i dont feel the same now. i dont feel were connected because all we can do is walk in streets crowded with people and im more concernd with not walking into people than him being there. i can only feel close to him when were somewhere quiet but theres nowhere about anymore. were in a long distance relationship. he cant come to my house and i cant go to his. were 18 and still live with parents. my heart feels very sore as i feel im missing something. i feel im only existing, my whole life in general is boring me. im stil in 6th year of high school. everything is repetitive, now even when im with him. what should i do? im so afraid. i stil think i love him, i just dnt feel like it.i just want this to work out. i dnt want to leave him. please help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2006): Hi
Im in a long distance relationship at the moment so know what its like when you miss someone. I have a few ideas on how to help so hopefully at least one of these should be helpful
When i first started seeing my man we wanted time alone to get to know each other better so although we did go to bars and stuff we also went for drives and to a local park with lots of walkways so we could just walks and talk or sit down in the sun and chat
When we got more comfitable with each other he came back to mine (not staying the night, just for a few hours) and we chilled in front of the tv of played games.
Once you have taken your mock exams in december why not have a night away in a hotel That would give you guys plenty of time for just the two if you
I know what its like just having a few hours a week I saw my bf for about 5 hours after not seeing him for a month and then he was away again for three weeks. He works away and its tough but give hese ideas a go and maybe it will help
Let me know how you get on
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