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writes: Im 16 and i think i have a problem. I masterbate about 2 a day or maybe more and finish everytime. I think i am doing it to much or is this normal? and all of a sudden i keep looking at porn sites again, can someone please help. Please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2007): hi
masterbating is ok no matter how many times you do it
im 54 and have a wank almost every day but dont just stay with the hand experiment try masturbating without using your hand the pleasure is explosive
im sure you will find someway of doing this or even get someone else to do it for you thats even better
good look
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2007): hi, i am 17 yr old and i have been masturbating since when i was 11 to 12. i use to do it more then 5 times a day. now i am in realy bad state. because i got asma, cant run for long and cant exercise for much longer and cant have sex for long time.
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reader, scared16 +, writes (19 December 2006):
dont worry about the masterbating. how ever many times you choose to do it is normal for u. i think looking at soft pron regularly is ok beacuse i suppose it is somethin you can relate to however looking at sexually explicit material regularly can ruin your sex life when you do get a gf as nothing will live up to what you see in the pron movies x x x
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reader, sheffield_pink +, writes (14 December 2006):
Just don't become obsessed like alot of men, when you meet a girl stop otherwise unless she's into it, you'll only cause problems.
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reader, lboy +, writes (11 December 2006):
hi reader,
i don't think that masturbating is something that you should worry about. i know people who masturbate alot more that 2 times a day some who do it about 6 or 7 times a day, i do on the onther hand think that you should try masturbating without watching porn or you may end up only being able to reach orgasm by watching porn trust me it happens.
good luck
lboy
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reader, rustynath +, writes (28 November 2006):
masturbating is fine. i do it as much as u... :P
its a way that people can release sexual tension. - i dont normally look at porn though, but i think you should try masturbating without porn, and with it, and decide what u find is best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2006): You can determine if it is a problem for yourself. Set a goal to see how long you can avoid looking at porn. Set a goal to see how long you can avoid masturbating. The goals you set, and if you can achieve them ought to tell you much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2006): Masturbating a lot can also lead to 'numbing' your penis, which can lead to long lasting sex, sometimes, not even able to orgasm.
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reader, Learning2Love +, writes (25 November 2006):
I agree with Dr Pete, masturbating that often is normal (some guys do it even more often).
But porn is a definite no-no, cos it stops you from relating to women as people with feelings, interests, etc and more as objects. This is a dangerous place to be in cos it will hound your relationships. Rather discover your gf (in the future) as a person and her body as she grows to trust you - cos you've earned it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2006): Perhaps you should limited yourself to know much you look at porn sites. If you do it too much, you coule end up having sexual and intimacy problems when you find a girlfriend whom your having a sexual relationship with. Two times a day is pretty normal, but exposing your self to extreme pornography is not. After a long time doing this, you shall meet a girl and expect the same kind of explicity sexualism which, I doubt, you will find some someone. Be careful with the porn. Use the imagination, instead.
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