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writes: i need some advice, ive been in a relationship for just over 2 yrs. i love my boyfriend very much. however we have been having some problems recently. he doesnt want to go out with me anymore, goes out with his friends. hes lost interest in sex and doesnt kiss and cuddle me as much anymore. we have also been arguing as his friends decided to tell lies on me and my boyfriend believes them. i have tried talking to him and he says he doesnt love me anymore but he really really likes me and that he doesnt fancy me as much as he should. i asked him whats changed and he said that hes been thinking about the future and that he doesnt want to get married or have kids. this suits me just fine as im already married to my ex who i have 2 kids with. havent got divorced yet. but he thinks that i do want to get married. he used to sit in with me when i couldnt get a babysitter but now even if ive got a babysitter he wont go out with me, wants to go with his friends. i dont know what to do anyone got any suggestions
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2007): well it seems you were right i actually caught him joke sex texting meeting and chatting to one of his female friends behind my back. so i know hes no good hes in that im sorry i'll never do it again thing. while i cant prove anything more happened i believe it did. i am still with him but purely out of convenience and kids etc. hes just being as nice as pie. im never going to get serious with him after what he has done. he knows how i feel although i dont believe we will be together for long as after all the stuff hes done to me i feel that my love has gone for him. i dont know whether it will come back at some point although at the moment i feel its unlikely so thank you for giving me advice
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (28 November 2006):
 Read what you have wrote and wake up, it is only you that has an interest in this relaionship, any interest he had has well and truely gone, it is just that he is not brave or man enough to lay this on the line for you, you are just clinging to something and someone that should now be in the past and you should be looking towards the future.
Put him out of his misery and finish it.
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