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writes: My girlfriend and I are both 20, have been dating for 2 years since we met in high school. Coincidentally we both planned to go to the same college (before we got together), so we've dated since. However, I feel like our relationship isnt going anywhere. We fool around alot, but she says she still isnt ready for sex, even though she's been on the pill for months, its just a personal thing. We never drank or partied in high school, but in college I've picked up the habit, whereas she doesnt drink and hates parties. Lately I've felt jealous of my other friends who can go to parties and randomly hook up with girls, even though I'm in a loving relationship.The thing is I truly do care for her feelings, I just feel our lifestyles are growing apart. I don't want to hurt her, but at the same time I just feel different than I once did. I really wish she enjoyed the same past times as me, but I dont know if our differences in sexual and social tendencies are too, well, different.Any advice is much appreciated.
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reader, k-fed +, writes (27 November 2006):
Don’t give up on your girlfriend, you know that she loves u and u love her right?
I know that they say “do rush, when the time is right then the time is right, and they are right!
She my have some insecurity or something that she feels uncomfortable or ashamed about and that may be the reason why she doesn’t want to have sex. Reassure her that you love her and their is nothing that she needs to be ashamed of with u if she opens up, then support her, don’t try to solve the problem just be their for her. Eventually thing will work out. don’t give up. Because just imaging if u did and she found someone else how would u feel if you could never get her back
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