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writes: Hi, im 17 and my bf has just turned 18, we are 100% comfortable with each other. we tried having sex for the first time last week, i wasnt very relaxed and was shaking a bit but i new it was the right thing to do. when we tried to do it, it really hurt and at a certain point it just wouldnt go in any further. im just worried this isnt normal so if anyone could shed any light on it that would be a great help as im really worried. so if you've got any tips or advice i would be most greatfull!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2006): Hiya, dont worry sex is a bit uncomfortable the first few times you do it.
Its just your body adapting and getting used to you having sex.
Just make sure that you have lots of foreplay and make sure that you get really wet as this will help his penis go in alot easier.
If you like you could even use lube too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2006): Hi Anon, First of all rest assured you are perfectly normal! dont put so much pressure on yourself hun, you are bound to be nervous Make sure you tell your boyfriend how you feel first of all make sure you cuddle lots before you try again and maybe get a bit of forplay if your comfy with that.
All you need do is totally relax and am sure you will enjoy yourself more good luck babes Ditzy Blonde xx
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reader, atarisrocks  +, writes (25 November 2006):
 that happeden to me about 7 times until i got relaxed and lots of foreplay and a bit of lube thenit slipped in no problem it did hurt still but not as bad
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