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writes: A friend keeps puting down my ex and my decision to go out with him in the past many times, also about my degree tough I have a Ph and work for uni, he also talks badly about my best friend who suffers from cancer and who is a nice person without malice, he also came to be friends with a boy I rejected so we are quite distant at the moment we had some arguments in the past about his behavioour as he talks badly about women, black people and immigrants and it gets me sick, despite all I have said he is a good friend who tries to help any time needed but I have the feeling he is not a good company and I feel worried about splitting our common fiends, should, i TALK to him, leave it...?
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reader, Astrid +, writes (26 November 2006):
Astrid is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes I have set space between us withour quarreling or anything but I feel a bit down as it's defficult to keep having friends who undertand and respect u so I leave up and move on
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reader, bellachic385 +, writes (25 November 2006):
It seems he is very insocure an dtrys to make himself look better by putting down almost everyone including his friend with cancer. Cancer is serious and his friend could die from it, he wouldn't want that. It seems you are much more mature and have a good futer ahead. There is someone better out there for you. You did give him a few chances so go ahead and move on. Good luck.
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