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writes: i have this huge problem! i was going out with this guy for almost a month, then all a sudden he dumped me! not sure exactly why, but i figured out that it was becasue hes not totaly over his ex (he still loves her). of corse im totaly hurt because i really liked him. the other day i was thinking about stuff, and it hit me......he used me!!!after about 2 days of going out, he asked if he could finger me (i had never been fingered before). i wasnt sure, i was really nervous, and kinda scared. but he tryed everything he could to convince me that it would be ok. he also said that he wouldnt do anything i wasnt confertible doing. but he was still trying to convince me that it would be good, not bad. i said maybe. so about 2 days later. (we were going out for 4 days) it was twards the end of our date (we were watching a movie in his basement) he asked if he could finger me, i trusted him, and i really liked him, and i thought he was a great guy, so i said yes. of corse i liked it! a week or so after our second date, things went down hill! he started to ignore me, and didnt talk to me for a week! i had no clue what was going on. then he had me over durring halloween, and he fingered me a little. then a few days later he tells me that he really didnt even want me to come over, and he dumped me soon after!!! because he was still in love with his ex (even though he doesnt wnana go out wit her again)i feel used! i trusted him! (im young!!) i was stupid obiously, but he was ive alwasy seen him was a nice, trusting, amazing guy! i mean other then that he lied, and led me on, he used me!!i dont know wut to do!! im not sure how to get over this! it hurts because i really liked this guy!! how can i get over this?!?!pls help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2006): honestly ive went through sort of the same exact thing, and the best thing to do is find another guy. also because you liked him your having a hard time getting over this remember that it was his loss, dont sit around feeling bad over it. he didnt f**k you he f**ked himself. jerkgo out more or do things to take your mind of it. eventually you're not going to care
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