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writes: Should I have sex now or wait?ok im 14 years old, and i have a bf and we been going out for 2 months and we been talking about having sex.I really like this guy and i mihth just love him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2007): i am 14 and i lost my virginity when i was 12.afterwards she thaught she was pregnant but she wasnt and it totally ruined our friendship so i suggest waiting until you are older and you are sure you are in love and you are not just doing it to please him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2006): Ok I lost my virginity at 14 and to be honest it was terrible!!!,I had no idea what to do or even how to have sex!!.
I thought I knew it all but obviously not, He put the condom on wrong, then it split and I was left worrying that I might be pregnant, nighmare!!.
Luckilly I was'nt pregnant, but you may not be as lucky. Just wait until you are 16 at least, the age of consent is 16 for a reason and I learnt why the hard way!.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2006): your 14 and in two months in your relationship. I'd say wait until your ready. but then again you may feel ready now but then regret it later.
but please don't do anything you'll regret later.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006): Hunny wait till you are older... I lost mine when I was 14 and i regretted it up until i met my fiance. Just wait. It's better
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2006): im 19 and i think that most of these ppl are right u should wait until u definatly know u can trust him enough i was with my girlfriend a year b4 we had sex and i was 15 wen we did and im still with that same girl, i hope ive helped in any way
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reader, [x-SheKeepsWishing-x] +, writes (29 November 2006):
![[x-SheKeepsWishing-x] agony aunt](/avatars/8eb81a78-6265-4547-8648-65b87ec264c6.png) Your 14..Your At An Age You Think It's Right .. i'd wait a while .. things might not turn out the way you want them to.. but if you feel like you can trust your boyfriend and you are ready for sex then thats your decsison ..x
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reader, megSTAR +, writes (27 November 2006):
id wait a little bit. your young, and if your only 2 months into your relationship- thats still the honeymoon stage. sex should be amazing and mean something...dont waste it over some fairytail love
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): I too have seen many, many girls ruined from having sex too earlier (not by me, I must add(!))
The longer you wait, the more clued up about guys you will be. And the more you'll end up respecting and feeling like your body is actually worth something special.
As for the love thing. You don't love him. If i'm wrong, bookmark this URL and write back to me in a year to say I was wrong.
You just have an overwhelming rush of attractive feelings for him. It is your body enticing you to get pregnant.
Hopefully mum or dads good upbringing will overrule this seemingly natural urge and you will wait it out until you are sure it is special and right. Good luck, statistic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2006): Wait until u are older, i am 17 and i lost my virginity when i was 16, i had been going out wiv a boy for 3 months and we had sex and he left me near enough straight after for a girl that was older than me and would give him regular sex, he broke my heart, and now i am very scared about having sex incase it happens again. Please dont make the same mistake as me, focus on your school work and just have fun with you bf without the sex. Good luck and Take care xxxx
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reader, K Jo V +, writes (26 November 2006):
u should wait. ur first time should be special and even though u may be ready physically,u might not be emotionally. just remeber good things come to those who wait.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2006): Do yourself a favor, and don't do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2006): Dont do it. I'm 20 and I've seen girls ruined- just because they arent mature enough to handle the emotional consequences. If I were you, focus on school and hobbies and things that will distract you - because studies show that girls who keep their virginity till they are 18 have a higher salary and success rate in life. Think twice- boys can be extreemly decieving to get what they want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2006): No don't do it! I am a 21 year old female and I can honestly say that sex makes men different. If you are only 14 and it's only been two months, wait a little while. If he really loves you back then he will wait. If he doesn't love you and you love him and you have sex then it will just be bad! You will feel degrated or used or something if that is the case. Wait until you know he loves you. My 16 year old sister lost her virginity to a 17 year old this summer after 2 months and he ripped her heart out. Seriously, I know younger girls don't want to hear it, because I definately did not, but men lose respect for you if you give it up UNLESS they really do love you.
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