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writes: I've liked this girl for about a year now and she has said to me that she only likes me as a friend even though she likes the attention from me, she has also recently broke up with her bf and shes been giving certain hints that she may actually feel that way about me on top of all this. I've tried running away even to another country to forget about her but it hasnt worked it just keeps getting worse now i cant get over her. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2006): Never run away from things no matter how hard it gets because when you come back they will be worse like you have foun out, have a chat to this girl and see how she is feeling she mite just be playing you and you dont want that to happen or she might like you but scared to have a rwelationship with you, talk to your girl and see what she says. i hope this has helped you
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (23 November 2006):
 Hi Guy,
I have been exactly where you are. Firstly, you must STOP GIVING HER ANY ATTENTION. You are what is called an Emotional Cookie Man. Basically she keeps you around for the attention you give her, as an EGO BOOST, but she has no intentions of ever returning your affections.
What I think you need is CLOSURE. That is what I needed when I was where you are at. You can read about it in my autobiography From Loser to Seducer. I got Closure when I made peace with the idea of having a life with her. I mean the life you built up in your head of being with her. That kind of imagining is at the root of your pain from her. Once you get closure on that, you will begin to heal once and for all.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, marie78 +, writes (23 November 2006):
You tell her to stop playing games with you and stop giving her so much attention. Move on to another woman. Good luck.
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