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writes: Hi there, what should a guy do when his girlfriend mentions every few days that he feels like her best friend and not a boyfriend?
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reader, eddie  +, writes (23 November 2006):
 Nobody here no exactly what it means. Much of it depends on how it was said. It could mean any of the above or it cold just mean that she feels you are always there for her.
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (23 November 2006):
 It sounds to me like she is preparing you for an upcoming break up, just she is not ready to hurt you just yet.
It sounds to me like the attraction is gone. This usually happens when a guy gets comfortable in a relationship, and his lover starts acting more and more like a mother to him. For the guy, this seems nice, but for the girl, it starts making her feel less attracted to him.
If you want to save your relationship, make sure you stop her everytime she starts to act like a mother to you, and start doing things, and thinking things, for yourself. Your only chance is to start addressing her emotional needs.
Good Luck.
-Frank B Kermit
author of Everything out of her mouth is a test: A man's guide to the emotional needs of women.
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reader, pica +, writes (23 November 2006):
She's certainly hinting at something - ask her what she means.
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reader, Learning2Love +, writes (23 November 2006):
 If she hasn't tried to break things up you it can mean that she appreciates that she can confide in you.
Now the way to go is not to get neurotic and accept it as a compliment. If you're not already holding hands, smuggling together and kissing you should do it. She might just appreciate that she can talk more with you than her exes and this shouldn't necessarily be a bad thing. Don't talk as much, try to have more physical closeness without being needy. Don't lay all your cards on the table and have all your feelings known to her.
Good luck.
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reader, ogga +, writes (22 November 2006):
hmm i dunno, it could mean that sometimes your really there for her but it would suggest you do soetimes need to spend a bit more tiime being more bfish. but it could be a good hting
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reader, lovinghimnow +, writes (22 November 2006):
Thats just a nice way to say she doesnt like you sorry..
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