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writes: I'm 27, and have had a few sexual partners, but have only come through penetrative sex with one partner (a summer fling).I'm with a lovely new man now, and have been with him for a couple of weeks. I enjoy sleeping with him, and have felt more relaxed with him than any previous partner. I can come close to orgasm through penetration with him, but never quite manage it. I just don't seem to be able to switch my brain off. I find myself thinking about mundane things, when I should be concentrating on the feelings. It would make his day if he could make me orgasm, and I would love it too. I feel like I'm holding back somehow. I haven't had the best of luck with men, and I wonder whether this is affecting me.Any ideas as to how I can really let myself go and fully enjoy what is happening?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2006): I heard from my doctor ( i have the same problem) that if you have other stresses on your mind even little things like the laundry or forgetting to turn the light off will stop you from orgasm. Make sure that you are completely relaxed and if you have any unsolvable stresses make sure that you have a relaxing bath and ask your partner to massage you(return the favour lol and it should do the trick quite well.
good luck...update us xx LeilaChick
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