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writes: I am 18 years old and a virgin (iv only ever kissed),but my bf who iv been seein for 6months isnt. He has made it clear that he wants to have sex with me,but everytime we get close,I stop him. I become really uncomfortable and have no confidence at all,I dont want him to change his mind about me and move on,and Im not sure wether its a serious problem that i need to see someone about..please help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2006): Do it! Do it! Loose your virginity! Don't end up old and still being a virgin, it's embarassing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2006): heyaa im 17 and i felt the same way!!! before, but about 2 months ago i did pretty much everything but sex! and it really wasnt like i was expecting if u know what i mean, i felt soo nerious and holded off for agess, trust me just let it happen if you want! but if your not 100% you want this with him wait!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2006): He may not be the right one, or this may not be the right time- stay steady with your decision and dont let him pressure you until you are certain in your mind that you are comfortable with yourself and him- keepign your virginity as long as you have- i applaud you- I see so many small children- even 12 yera olds!! lose their virginity when they are not ready- it is a mistake and one you wil regret. Wait till you really know for sure that you want to. The pay off is well- espeically if the person you are with loves you back.
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reader, Queen of Parts +, writes (22 November 2006):
If you're not comfortable, then you are right to not have sex with him. I made this mistake with my first serious boyfriend, thinking it was the only way to keep him. In hindsight (a wonderful thing!) if he had cared as much as he said he did about me, he would have been happy to wait until I was ready.
If he isn't prepared to wait for you to feel comfortable, then it isn't right. If he "changes his mind about you" then he really isn't worth your time. You need someone who respects you and your wishes, not pestering you into doing something you're not ready for.
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