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writes: My girlfriend can't get over her ex. She broke up with him two years ago because he cheated. Recently, she e-mailed him saying she thinks about him at least once a day and how she still misses him. She also tells him how lucky his new girlfriend is to have him and she hopes they will always be in each other's lives, continually complimenting him also asking to exchange recent photos, etc. Should I break it off with her until she finally gets over this guy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2006): sounds like she would cheat on u if ever given the opportunity.
u should leave the relationship and find a nice caring women who isnt so hung up on another guy she broke up with 2 years ago.
and dont wait for her to get over her ex, and then try to get back with her. ur just wasting time when u could be finding ur real soulmate.
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (22 November 2006):
Hi There,
I think you should break it off with her PERMANENTLY. If her emails are any indication, you obviously are not her primary concern. I only see you getting hurt in the long run. For whatever reason, she does not have the same feelings for you than she still does for him.
You deserve to have a primary partner that makes you her primary too. It sounds to me like you are settling for less than what you deserve. If it were me, I would say Time to find someoneelse.
-Frank B Kermit
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