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I think my bf is cheating on me...how do I stop being so paranoid?

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Question - (22 November 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 November 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

i have been going out with my b/f now for 4 yrs and i thought we loved each other very much but over the last year things have got bad.

last year my b/f had a serious car accident abroad and nearly died. I stood by him and helped him with everything through this time. i thought he could tell me anything but out of the blue he told me he thought we should go on a break. i txt him the next morning but he did not reply and then I went to his house, when I got there he said he had not recieved my txts so I looked on his phone. he had got my txts and also txts from another girl. from that moment on i didn't feel sexy or wanted. then i made a terrible mistake i went on holiday with my friends and when i was drunk i kissed someone I think it was because he was interested in me. I told my boyfriend this and he stayed with me but now i cant help but feel he is cheating on me. i love him very much but i dont know if i can ever stop being so paranoid.

please anyone what do you think i shoul do

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2006):

You're probably guilty, because of what you did... now think of all reasons why you think he's cheating. Sometimes you need to trust your instincts, sometimes you're just being paranoid.I suggest you sort your feelings, wait for proof, don't jump to conclusions.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2006):

To be blunt: If you feel your bf is cheating he prob is. Always trust your own feelings. vma

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