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writes:how can i get my girl to give me longer oral sex without hurting her feeling's?my girlfriend is hot and she's sweet when we first got together we loved doing 69er's and giveing oral pleasure all the time. now it's seem's i'm the only 1 giveing never getting any in return. blow jobs for me last long sorry they do because i love them. but my girl complan's if i'm spiting (a litte bit of cum out of the end of my cock) and that's before any sex. she didn't complan 5 month's ago now it's i don't wanna because it's spitting.she lick's it for a while and complan's about the hair on it or the spit how can i get her to give me longer oral sex without me hurting her feeling's?sould i stop givein her 20 mintues of oral sex everytime she want's me to go down on her?i look at it like this i give her 20 mintues she give's me 5 mintutes top. she just use's her hand but i can use my hand. am i being mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2010): Maybe the best way is to not insist ... also you can stop offering her oral sex, if you do not enjoy it (any habit, good or bad, can have its end, if you are man enough to stop it).
Normal sex is much healthier.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (23 November 2006):
 Here is what I do to encourage the act.
Firstly, encourage her to touch herself during the act. It helps her enjoy it more.
Use a variety of Flavored condoms and see what she likes best.
Use different foods, and drinks to mix and match the taste sensations. Do the same thing to her...
And lastly, but it goes without saying I am sure...make damn sure the area is CLEAN and shaved whenever possible.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks alot i think her loseing her baby and being depressed and working all day is killing her and she can't go down on my for longer than 5 mintues thanks alot to all that answer my question.
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reader, marie78 +, writes (23 November 2006):
No, you're not. Ask her what's changed? Maybe her feelings for you have changed... because most women will do what it takes to please a man they love. So, find out what's going on with her. Tell her that you don't feel comfortable giving her 20 minutes of oral sex when she gives you 5 minutes and complains. She's being a selfish lover and you need to talk to her about that. Have you done anything to upset her lately? Women use sex as a weapon... think about it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2006): hate to be the bearer of bad news, but the honeymoon faze is most likely over. the things u guys used to do is going to change. if u dont like giving her oral, then dont, if u do then do it but dont always expect her to return the favour. all u can do right now is ask her why she doesnt like the spitting, ask her what the real problem is. u can also try wearing a condom, so she cant taste it. and ultimatly have her always give u oral first and then return the favour to her in the same amount of time. just reverse the role. if she is not going to get u off then why should u get her off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2006): Once you get married (whether to her or not), you'll find out how lucky you've been so far. Try asking married men if giving 20 gets them five in return (better yet, ask them if giving a weeks worth of twenty minutes gets them 5 minutes total time). Right now your only problem is if you aren't getting any pleasure out of it (and I mean both giving and getting). If that's the case, spend your time doing something more pleasurable.
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