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writes:I started messing with this guy while he was in jail for like a hole year he came home to live with me he got a job and helped me out alot but after about 3 months of him being home he started showing his other side and started drinking here and there but not someone who drinks everyday but when he do he is a different person and became a possessive lover he didn't want me going out with my friends or talking to them on the phone he wanted to go ever where with me when I get up to get get dress for work he stands in the bathroom and watch me even when he has to go to work he calls me ever second talking about nothing he is just trying to see if I am around a guy so I started telling him I dont like it because I dont mess around and he knows that is true because he is always around me I dont get to have no to myself time so he got mad and pulled a gun out on me telling me he will kill me and alot of other thing so the next day he was telling me he was sorry but I didn't want him in my life any more but I didn't want him to hurt me so I became so scared of him and he new it an if I acted like I was going to call the police he would say he will run and kill me later so I started staying to my self and not paying him any mind thinking he wil leave me alone he got worst it's seem when he gets mad at thing when they dont go his way he gose and drink(because I dont no what it is no matter what I say to him he will not hit me if he haven't been drinking I think he need it to make him do it) he fights me like he wants to kill me so on aug.9,06 I wanted him out of my house I told him to come get his thing and leave me alone I was scared but I had it with him I told everone I new so they could no who killed me if he tried to so I fell a sleep I didn't want to because he had a key but I did he came in my house he been drinking alot this time he draged me out the bed and beat the shit out of me my next door neighbor called the police he got locked up and got out the nexts day I was so scared the police didn't tell me nothing I found out by him nocking at my door for his things I told him he needs to have a police with him he got one then I went and got a CPO order on him two days later I was leaving out my door and he was trying to push his way in my house I called the police they locked him up two days later he is still in jail still telling people he is going to kill me if I get him some time I told the lawyer what he's been saying she told me they can only give him 6 months now i dont no what to do if I should go to court or leave it alone I think ether way he is going to hurt me because he is crazy what do any of you think I should do!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI already have an order againt him it's called a C.P.O. meaning a civial protection order he is already locked up now for coming to my house after I got it
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2006): the council have a temporary accommodation dept for extreme cases. get out and do not tell him where you are going!!!
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reader, Juls +, writes (13 November 2006):
Simple: go to the police NOW, like, this very minute, and get restraining orders. If he's been in jail before, it will be even easier for you to have it done.
Step number two is calling a friend who lives far away and ask for help a few months. If you have favors you can pull, now is the time to do so.
If you don't have a friend who lives far away, go away anyway. He's insane, obviously, and therefore won't be able to work up the brains to find you. You sound young, now is as good a time asany to start over your life somewhere else. Find yourself a nice place with a beach, and learn your lesson to avoid convicts.
If you want advice on moving and finding a new job, e-mail me.
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