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writes: I have just been dumped by the guy who I thought was "the one" as he is going throgh some family problems and needs to be alone and just focus on his family. To make matters worse we work together, we actually sit beside eachother!I am mad about him and I have to face him in work now everyday. Does anyone have any advice for me on how to get through this? I dont know what to do, I'm hurting so much.
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reader, Juls +, writes (13 November 2006):
The best way to deal with this is being extra-professional. Be completely neutral. Talk to him only when needed. Most of all, try to be better than him.
If you're boss was aware of the relationship, tell him/her about the split. If he/she knows about the split, as him/her to avoid putting you on projects together (that is, if your boss is tolerable. if thta's not the case, ignore the topic altogether, it would make things worse).
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reader, Princess_81 +, writes (12 November 2006):
 I think that you might actually get back together your boyfriend probably really does just need time out when he sorts his self out I bet he will want you back.
Just give him his space be a supportive friend and forget about the issues you have with him just dumping you. If you do this I believe you be back with your boyfriend and an item once again.
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