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writes: Hello,I am 25, blonde, slim and I would say quite attractive. I would like to know the following:Do men like it if a woman is forward? Or should it always be about mind games and men doing all the chasing and calling. To be honest I get sick of all this and wondered what guys opinions are on this? I mean in the situation where you are seeing someone but not going out yet?Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2007): No men don't like women to chase them, they like to do the chasing. If he is interested in you he will phone you, you just have to wait. If he dosn't phone just forget it. I think the trick is to let him see you when you are out but don't aproach him.He will be puzzled why you did not go over to him and will find you more of a challenge. Men like to do the chasing and women like to be chased.If he is the one for you he will call.When he phones you say you have made arrangements with a friend for that night but the day after would be fine.Then he thinks 'well she hasn't been waiting by the phone for me to call.Also just a kiss on the first date.Make him wait for a month or even two months.If he is interested he will wait and sex will be better through all the anticipation. Good luck.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (13 November 2006):
 I can't speak for all men, but personally I like to do the chasing and calling. I'm not sure what you mean 'seeing someone but not going out' however. If you are already having sex then you should both be able to call each other without there being any games involved.
I think men are built to believe that something is only worth keeping if you have had to chase and work for it. That is one reason why it is good to hold off on sleeping with a guy for a while when you are dating... as time passes the value of his 'prize' goes up.
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