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writes: I posted some previous questions about my relationship with a guy i met 6 months ago.we live in 2 seperate cities.He has been pulling back from me, after him pursuing me with constant texts/ emails and calls.I sent him a 2 page e-mail telling him how much i liked him, what i liked about him and everything he has done to make me feel rejected.I said to him, that if he wants to be friends, he needs to back of so i can get my feelings into order, but if he wants start again, then we need to talk ernestly.He responded, saying he had so much to say, but couldn't get it out and would respond to all my questions, but it might take a while. He also said, he didn't think he needed to back of, but if thats wahy i want, then he would respect me.weve had very limited contact since and it been tense. I sent him a text saying i miss him, but that he shouldn't reply to this message..........that was 2 days ago and i haven't heard from him. I only said he shouldn't reply because i was afraid i'd be hurt again because he may not reciprocate. I explained this to him, in an e-mail that i know he hasn't read yet and will probably read it in a couply of days.I think i have lost him for good....which really hurts.I plan on travelling to the city he lives in next weekend for business. I will be there for 1 night only.should i contact him and see if we should meet for a friendly drink?Please help me........i don't want to seem as desperate as i have been looking these days.I do miss him and i do like him alot and i do wonder if he misses me to...
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reader, gustavia  +, writes (12 November 2006):
wow, i sort of feel your pain but at the same time i think both of you need to sit down and talk and stop jerking each other around. if you really miss him and like him a lot, tell him and ask him if he feels the same way. if he is evasive with his answers then he's not ready to commit to you and you should move on and don't look back. good luck
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