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writes:I am a 45 year old single female who has a 52 year old married female friend. We have known each other for a year and have become very good friends. I am very, very sure she knows that I care for her in a way that would be more than just a friendship. She knows I love her and I am pretty darn sure she know I am in love with her. The problem I am having is not knowing how she truly feels. I don't think she will come right out and tell me and for obvious reasons I won't ask. I have gotten several emails from her that lead me to believe she feels more for me than just friendship. In fact this is a portion of an email she sent me. "U DON'T KNOW HOW LUCKY U R TO BE SINGLE !!!!!!!!!!!!! I GET SO SICK OF BEING MARRIED SOMETIMES!! HECK MOST OF THE TIME!!! then there was another email that she sent and she signed off "U R THE SUNSHINE IN MY DAY.. I MEAN THAT!!!! HUGS AND KISSES TO MY FAVORITE PERSON!! U U U U !!!! MISS AND LOVE YA BUNCHES!!!!! So what do you think. Is she into me more than just as a friend? And if you think so what can I ask her to help me no for sure?? I would like to be as subtle as possible. HELP!!!Thanks a ton agony aunts. Reply to this Question
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reader, eddie  +, writes (13 November 2006):
 Be very careful. She might just be venting. Also you're reading her messages through the eyes of someone who is hoping for more. In other words, you'll grasp at any tidbit of encouragement she offers you or see things that are not actually there. Also written words can easily be misunderstood. You're also assuming she's a lesbian. MOST of all, she's taken. Tread carefully. You're almost overstepping your bouds and risking your friendship.
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