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writes: hi im a virgin and i was wondering to all those girls who have lost their virginity, is it as bad and scary as people make out? x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007): no its not, its fine...no worries aslong as ur ready xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2007): i lost mine a week ago, and the best advice i can give is to not be drunk. even if you want it and have wanted it. i didnt think that there were happy endings to this kinda shit, but honestly, it would have been nicer to have had a better experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2006): I was also scared of the pain and everything, but now that I look back on it, it was just because I didn't know what to expect - will I bleed, how much will it hurt, will he even be able to get inside, etc.
The first time my boyfriend fingered me for a while before trying, to 'stretch' me a bit. Overall, he was very considerate with me and it wasn't nearly as bad as I thought it might be. It was a bit painful, but nothing intolerable, and I didn't bleed either. I also didn't orgasm, but it was still pleasurable. So all in all, I have only positive emotions connected to my first time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2006): I was expecting it to be terible but actally it was ok, i tensed up so he wouldn't fit but if you relax it goes fine pain wasn't even strong, i didn't plan it or anything i just got very close to a good friend who had fancied e for yrs, just be sure you can relax fully with them, cos you can't force your body to relax. Oh friends say it hurt 4 them but they weren't with right ppl or were really young, apparently it feels like you'e a cock in you for days personally i don't know what their on about
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reader, Yos  +, writes (13 November 2006):
 It's always scary. But it's not bad if you do it with the right guy at the right time. Meaning when you are old enough to handle the complex emotions it unlocks, and handle the relationship with your boyfriend. The best advice I can give is wait until you are with a boy that you know for sure loves you and will treat you right, and not run off right after he has 'conquered' you (which happens all too frequently).
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reader, b3x  +, writes (12 November 2006):
 No not at all! Mine was really really special!
I guess if there is anything that I am really thankful for, is that my boyfriend wasn't a virgin and he was so supportive of me! We 'planned' it all really, made sure we used the right protection, took into consideration that it may hurt (hence why we got lube) and took it nice and slow.
If anything it wasn't amazing the first times, but after a few it was so intimate! (hopless romantic) Its not a bad as anyone makes out! Just make sure you and your boyfriend think it through. Afterall having sex and losing your virginity....you only have it once! xx
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reader, gustavia  +, writes (12 November 2006):
it's only bad and scary if you don't want to have sex.
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