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writes: my boyfriend said that he does not look at women sexually, for example he does not care to look at a woman's body ie; breast and bums, like many men do. He says that I insult him when I say he must do and that it is in a man's make-up to do that. He says that body parts do not turn him on, they are just lumps of flesh unless they are attached to the woman he loves. Can anyone relate to this? male or female responses appreciated.Rachel x Reply to this Question
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reader, frank8080 +, writes (13 November 2006):
 its not stupid at all i thoght i way Weird when i did not see girls in a sexual way then i thoght i might even be gay but no i found that i way more attracted to a girl if i talked to her and seen the really pearson becoes if the hart and mind are bad then the hole thig is
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2006): you are proof that women are never happy. what's your frickin deal
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2006): He's a keeper...how wonderful for you to have a guy who loves and adores 'only' your body parts. Like Max said..it's rare but guys like this do exist! lucky you!
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reader, maxsteel86  +, writes (12 November 2006):
 Its normal but rare
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2006): normally guys do. he may just be saying that so he doesnt upset u. but its not uncommon that a guy who is attached to someone else does not see other women that way. consider urself lucky
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (12 November 2006):
 This is unusual but not in a bad way. This guy sounds really nice and respectful and I think more guys should think like him: he sounds lovely! I know lot's of men do look at women for their boobs or bums or whatever, but once a man's in love, those things don't matter to him anymore. He should love you even without these things so, although they look nice to him, they're not what make you 'you'.
As for looking at these parts on other women, I don't know a guy that doesn't do this but maybe he's realised how silly it is to judge someone by the way they look. Maybe he's realised how it's what's inside that counts and doesn't think he should be judged like the other men who ogle everything that moves and has boobs.
You're a lucky girl and you need to keep hold of this man. Not many men can walk down a street and only be thinking of you, no matter what girl walks by. I know it seems weird, but only because we're used to men who like to look at women and judge them on the way they look. They're not all like that, as we're not all the same.
Good luck
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