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writes: hi!well...ive recently got this new job which ive been at for a few weeks now. When i first started i connected really well with my supervisor, actually i just thought we were friends who just made jokes and acted silly. But one night at work i stayed back and we got into this serious conversation about his ex and if i was single and looking for a guy...blah blah blah i said i was single and was just waiting to see what happens. He then reacted really shocked saying how hes amazed im single cause im friendly, nice, attractive, and young.i have to say im just giving you little bits of what was said because it was a long talk. But, we do flirt practically everytime we see eachother, he says things that get me confused...confused that i dont know if hes just mucking around or actually interested in me. But the gist is...is that im 16 and hes 28! i dont know whether hes messing around or what!? im the only one that talks to him about everything and i think the other girls get a little jealous cause theyve been there longer and haven't even connected nearly as close as what i have with him! Then i start to think that i'm being a little over the top, getting things wrong. But i just wanted to know what you think. Am i reading too much into this or am i right that he does flirt with me and would like more then just flirting...?Sorry for the length of this but im just a little confused. Thank you for your time and input as well.
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reader, Juls +, writes (13 November 2006):
The age difference isn't the real problem. He's your supervisor, and dating someone higher than you in hierarchy is a general bad idea. Also, depending on where you live, it might be illegal to keep going this way. Just wait till you're 18 and have another job, see if you haven't found yourself someone else nice, and then go for it.
In two years.
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reader, pica +, writes (12 November 2006):
He's quite a bit older so he's much more experienced than you but more significantly he's your supervisor - to be honest you should avoid getting involved with him while you work there. It would be better to make friends with the other girls. And on that, you think they are jealous of the attention you get, but do you honestly think he shut himself away and spoke/flirted with no-one until you arrived? You might want to avoid being alone with him after work too. Maybe concentrate more on the job itself.
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